Fredrick's experience

Living in Queen Mary University Hall has been a transformative experience that has significantly shaped my university life. The transition from living at home to sharing a space with diverse individuals has taught me invaluable lessons in communal living, adaptability, and camaraderie.

From the moment I moved in, I realized that communal living was going to be a central part of my university journey. The hall, bustling with students from various backgrounds, quickly became more than just a place to stay—it became a community. Each floor has its unique character, reflecting the personalities and cultures of its residents. I found myself immersed in a vibrant mix of traditions, languages, and experiences, which enriched my understanding of the world.

One of the most striking aspects of living in the university hall is the sense of community that develops among the residents. We often gather in the common areas, where spontaneous conversations can lead to lasting friendships. Whether it’s a shared meal in the kitchen, a late-night study session in the lounges or a casual chat in the hallway, cinema, mezzanine lounge or in the laundry, these interactions have fostered a strong sense of belonging.

Managing communal spaces requires a degree of patience and cooperation that I had not fully appreciated before. I have learned the importance of respecting shared spaces and being considerate of others’ schedules and habits. For instance, coordinating kitchen use and maintaining cleanliness are crucial to ensuring a harmonious living environment. We have established formal and informal rules and routines that help maintain order and mutual respect.

For students considering living in university halls, here are some pieces of advice based on my experience:

Embrace the Community: Be open to meeting new people and participating in residential life activities. This will help you build connections and make your stay more enjoyable.

Respect Shared Spaces: Clean up after yourself and be mindful of noise levels, especially during late hours. This consideration helps maintain a pleasant living environment for everyone.

Communicate Openly: If conflicts arise, address them calmly and respectfully. Open communication can prevent small issues from becoming bigger problems.

Get Involved: Take part in social events organized by the Queen Mary Residential Life. These activities are great opportunities to relax, have fun, and bond with other residents.

Support Each Other: University life can be challenging, and having a support network within the hall can make a big difference. Be there for your fellow residents, and don’t hesitate to seek support when you need it.

Social events organized by the university residential life or by the residents themselves play a significant role in enhancing the communal living experience. From movie nights to cultural celebrations, these events provide opportunities for us to unwind and bond with each other. I vividly recall our flat’s international food night, where each resident prepared a dish from their home country. It was a night of culinary exploration and cultural exchange, leaving us all with a deeper appreciation for each other's backgrounds.

Of course, communal living is not without its challenges. Conflicts can arise, often from minor issues like noise levels or differing lifestyles. However, these challenges have taught me the importance of communication and compromise. We have learned to address issues openly and work towards solutions that accommodate everyone’s needs.

One of the most rewarding aspects of living in Queen Mary University Hall has been the support network that naturally develops among residents. Being away from home can be daunting, but knowing that there are people around who are going through similar experiences makes it easier. We support each other through academic pressures, homesickness, and personal challenges. This collective resilience has been a cornerstone of my time at the university.

In conclusion, living in Queen Mary Halls has been a profound experience of communal living. It has taught me the value of community, cooperation, and cultural exchange. The friendships I have formed and the lessons I have learned will stay with me long after I leave halls. This experience has not only enhanced my university life but also prepared me for the diverse and interconnected world beyond. For those considering halls living, embrace the opportunity—it will be an integral part of your university experience.

International Food Night for Flat 13 Residents-We organised this ourselves.

On my birthday, it was a surprise!